August 2019 – Family Highlights

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Highlights

  • Calan has another backyard birthday party for #9
  • Evan starts kindergarten at CAPE!

Chores: The boys are starting to learn how to put away their own clothes, clean up their own messes, take dishes to sink, tidy up rooms, dust, wipe down surfaces, clean mirrors and strip their own beds. We are just picking a “chore of the day” to keep it simple and manageable. 

Getting ready for school has “started” this month. Fun trolley adventure this month. Showing the boys and talking about their new school schedule and what supplies they need was made for some exciting moments.

Mama started fun dinner theme nights which included: Monday Night Foodbowls, Taco Tuesday, Whatever Wednesday, Thankful Thursday, Fast Food Friday, Surprise Saturday and Sunday Special.

8/10 – pool party on actual bday

8/11 – little football camp with keegan

8/14 – beach day in Carp w/ mama and a bunch of friends

8/20 – pool playdate with the Paquettes

Calan

Calan started his new school year without a hitch. It’s almost on “auto pilot” now and easier with Evan at kindergarten most of the day now.

Notable quotes this month:

After telling his math tutor about flying to OR next month, his teacher said, “Oh you’ll be on one of those jets that if you flew it to the sun, it would take 20 years to get there.” Calan thought for a moment, then said “I don’t think I’d be able to sit for that long.”

Evan
Evan started kindergarten. Calan, Mama and Dada then went out to celebrate some time together at Marie Calendars.
 
Notable quotes this month:

“When I hit my belly like this (tapping and finding that hallow sound your stomach can make), it means I’m still hungry.”

Dada: “Hey Evan, how come you’re not playing cards with Mama and Calan?”
Evan: “Umm, it’s not my thing”

While doing little math problems on the chalkboard, Evan figured out that 2 minus 2 = 0, after which he exclaimed: “That’s a weird fact!”

Doing chores this month and getting into the routine, Evan stood at the office/guest room door one morning, asking Dada: “Anything need dusting in here?” It was just too cute, him standing there looking eager, holding his little dust cloth.

We didn’t see Evan one morning and called upstairs for him a few times. He called back: “I’m changing my clothes! How would you feel if you were interrupted!”

July 2019 – Family Highlights

Highlights

  • Swim lessons
  • Dada survives a broken back 🙁

The boys kept busy this month with some of their favorite hobbies along with some new ones while Dada suffered through a pretty intense situation with a slipped disc in his lower back. Calan and Evan kept busy most weekdays doing swimming lessons with Coach Lynn (both boys now at our house). They also continued their respective summer basketball seasons. At home they really got into building with our old Lego collection. Many days, the kitchen table would be filled with constructions of miniature house interiors and along with an explosion of unique puzzle boxes. Lego puzzle boxes consist of putting together Lego bricks into a small box. Different pieces can be “secretly” slid or pulled to find little “keys” and unlock different compartments within the box. The puzzle box solver would be successful once they opened the box to find a small, hidden treasure inside. Calan especially had fun building these from online tutorials. Evan enjoyed making his own versions too. Thanks to Keegan who discovered these and shared on the way back home from the mini football camp the boys attended together last month.

The butterfly family that we watched develop over the last couple of weeks were finally ready to be released. We had a rather anti-climatic even in the back yard when we let the last remaining…well, surviving one go.

Calan

Calan continued to play piano more this month. It was great to see him carry on playing into the summer. In the last few years, he would get busy with other interests following the late spring recital. He was learning and playing around with some jazz songs. He really liked trying some out in the Robert Schultz book. Mama also organized a lesson with her old studio accompanist who was visiting his hometown Camarillo for a couple weeks from New York. He and Calan had a fun filled session together discussing the blues and even doing a improvisational duet on the piano.

Calan also kept going on his weekly math studies with Mr. Henning. Calan also tried to get back into coding this month with some success. Code.org offers a great starting track for younger kids, and Calan liked going through their beginner block-coding program

Evan
 
Evan recently got on a kick of making fun, little art inventions. This was owed in part to Mama’s reorganization of the front closet; mainly converting it into a fully stocked “art closet”. Evan absolutely loves this. It’s full of supplies to make any kind of artwork or craft you can think of…or at least that a five year old can think of! You’ll find him pulling out cardboard, glue, scissors and markers in one of his sessions; then cutting and assembling interesting “inventions” that only a guy like Evan could come up with. He also loves the “tinker bin.” This bin is full of lots of random supplies that allows the creative mind go wild
 
Evan is back in full stride again with swimming this summer. He’s even started using fins on “fin day” with Coach Lynn. He’s getting better and better with each lesson. The best part is he seems to like it and feeling proud about his progress.

June 2019 – Family Highlights

Highlights

  • Evan graduates from preschool
  • Evan turns 5!
  • Family trip to see the Sequoias

This month was packed with a lot of big moments. We helped Evan celebrate the end of his preschool career and his turning 5! He also played in his first piano recital. The month was made complete with a great visit from Gran and Grandpa.  We also took a family road trip to Sequoia National Park. In sports, swim lessons, football and a basketball season all started!

Piano Recital
June started with the arrival of Gran and Grandpa. We did a quick celebration of Mama’s birthday from the day before, then started what was a mini marathon of events. The first was Mama’s studio recital for her voice and piano students. And for the third year in a row, Calan was on the program to play piano. This year was extra special as his still just barely 4-year-old brother joined him in the performance. The two played their cute duet together. Truly precious to say the least. Calan played several pieces including one he’s been playing for the past few months “Free As the Wind”, a classical piece, and then a song Dada wrote back in college, that he transcribed and made as his own. 

Summer School…
After taking a break, the boys started their “summer school” routines on June 10. In music, Calan continued to play piano and restarted violin again after a small break. He incorporated a little more improvising in both. In science, we had fun watching the caterpillars Evan got for his birthday get bigger in their little habitat. They would begin emerging a couple weeks later, with only a couple really surviving. Evan also caught a bug in a new bug catcher contraption he got as a present for his birthday. Calan is still doing Prodigy math, and is about 39% of the way through the 6th grade level. 

Trip to Sequoia National Park
Our family road trip this summer turned out to be a winner. Thanks to Mama’s careful planning, it was a trip that was perfect for our crew’s speed at the moment and something the boys just loved: being outdoors and exploring. Also, being relatively close to home was a huge plus.

We left on Father’s Day (6/16) after packing up our rental car from the Toyota dealership. We took our time heading to the Central Valley where we would stay in Tulare. We made stops at the honey bee farm between Fillmore and Piru and a rest area along the way to Tulare. The kids had been to the honey farm before, and it was too much fun trying out different flavors of honey. We also ate our lunch there; munching on sandwiches Mama packed while ducking into the shade as best we could to get out of the hot, early summer sun. Frequent stops and stretches were good since Dada was nursing a slipped disc and couldn’t sit for too long.

We made it the Comfort Suites in Tulare in the late afternoon. The boys were in their usual excited mode when arriving someplace new, especially a hotel. Once settled, we ventured over The Habit for dinner. The Habit would be our go-to place for nightly dinners for the week. It was relatively cheap and offered the boys safe and agreeable dinner choices.

Over the next four days we ventured up the mountain from Tulare into the park where the boys thoroughly enjoyed taking in the gigantic trees, looking for and spotting animals and swimming in Lake Kaweah and the hotel pool. Each day we set out a plan on where to go and what to explore in the park. Most of where we went in the park was about an hour and fifteen minutes away from the hotel, so it wasn’t too bad. It was definitely worth the money saved versus staying closer! The car rides were filled with anticipation of what we’ll see with a soundtrack of good music playing through the speakers (the boys eventually identifying their favorite songs in the playlist such as “The Devil Went Down to Georgia.”)

The trip experience was great, prompting many requests of doing a similar trip again soon. Some big impressions from the trip included seeing the largest tree on Earth in General Sherman, the first time swimming in a real lake, and a treacherous drive of 10 minutes or so when we took a wrong turn onto a side road leading down to a camp. The problem was the road was just wide enough for one car, twisting along the face of a large hill, with a steep, rocky incline on one side and drop-off of more than hundred feet on the other with no guard rails. Of course before we could get to where we needed to turn around, a truck came from the opposite direction. Needless to say, it was a very tense moment figuring out how to get by each other. Of course we survived and have a little story to remember and associate with our vacation.

Calan

Aside from being busy with our road trip and starting summer school, Calan started up quite a bit on the sports front this month. Summer flag football and his return to basketball after a couple YMCA seasons. He adjusted well back into football after being away from it for over a month. He did great job handling most of the QB snaps again without any anxiety challenges. Coming back to the Y after the Future Pro season made for any easy transition. Basketball also ramped up quickly – his coach (Al) was coaching both D1 and D2 levels with his son in both, so some of the D2 team did practices with the D1 team. Calan stuck it out in the optional back-to-back practices, but it definitely wore him out. Swim also started this month with Coach Lynn returning once again. Calan also got into playing solitaire recently. It took awhile before he won a game but with some persistence and a few “workouts” for his patience muscles he finally prevailed and loved finding wins when he could. Another thing he enjoyed was getting to ride his bike to Josiah’s house by himself for the first time. Not only did he get to do something independent that felt like a big deal to him, he got a play-date out of it with his best neighborhood pal.

Evan
 
This was definitely a big month for Evan. After playing in his first piano recital, he graduated from preschool a few days later. He ended his school year with a regular morning and then a performance with his class of the Hungry Caterpillar story. He also earned the most laughs and “best answer” from his teacher as she went down the line of students asking them what they wanted to be when they grew up. When asked, Evan replied in front of the big, crowded room: “When I grow up I want to be a MAN.” It was the perfect, steady delivery that sent waves of laughter across the seats filled with parents, grandparents and siblings.
 
The next day, Evan turned 5! We all celebrated in typical fashion as a family. With “the Gs” we headed to breakfast at the Waypoint cafe. It was a 15-minute wait despite it being a Thursday. The boys ran around out back, watching helicopters land and take off and other little kids chasing birds. Evan ate a filling breakfast of eggs and blueberries. Of course his favorite part was the chocolate ice cream dessert with chocolate covered strawberries – of course delivered by a young waitress. Around noon, we dropped by Home Depot to look for some gunny sacks and tug-o’-war rope for Evan’s upcoming birthday party. We all did this while Mama hit Target for party supplies. The boys loved going around in the “car” cart as we killed some time waiting for Mama. Getting home around 2:00, Evan played out back while the rest of us got ready for a mini-family party inside. We did some basic balloons, set out presents and set up the cake that Mama put together. Evan came in and opened presents from everyone, including Nanna and Poppa. His favorite present was a little kit that contained 12 preserved insects in little pexiglass cubes. He also like his giant “5” balloon and went about playing with just it for awhile after the party. In the late afternoon, we headed out to Calan’s first football practice of the summer season. Gran and Grandpa got to watch a little. Towards the end of practice, we had Evan’s meet-and-greet for his summer basketball season. Evan hung out in childcare at the Y while everything was going on. We had a bit of planning to do to coordinate Calan’s basketball season with Evan’s. Only the second time we’ve had both boys in the same sport at the same time (soccer in 2017). Evan said he had a fun day, and was ready for sleep when we tucked him in around 9 o’clock. 
 
Also noteworthy for this month was Evan giving his third organized sport a try. His first basketball season! The idea was also for Calan to be a helper for his team. This was mainly to help give Calan some confidence. This proved to be a lot harder than we hoped but he had his moments of stepping in and helping either Evan or the team. Evan was mostly engaged in practices and games, although the goofy side of Evan definitely came out. It didn’t help that they combined the younger age groups, so not only did you have 3 and 4 year olds playing with older and more experienced kids, you had a lot of players on the team. Of course this meant sitting out more than you should, which then brought out a goof ball tendency for Evan. He would try hard and be mostly focused in practices. In games, where the noisy gym became a big box of chaos Evan would lose that focus and be more of a class clown at times during his time in the game than actually playing anything resembling basketball. It was hard to watch, but kind of silly too. We figure he’s got to start somewhere, right?

Notable quotes this month:

Evan: “Mama!” (yelling).
Mama, standing a few feet away around the corner “Why are you yelling at me?”
Evan: “I’m sorry, I yelled at  you on accident. I didn’t know you were right close to me.”

Calan, during our road trip heading into Sierra Nevada Mountains: “I wanna see a bear.”
Evan: “They might be tumbling down on this side. pointing out the window on trip.”  

Going to bed one night, Evan says “How are towers built?” Mama explains, then tells him maybe he could be an engineer when he grows up. He replied, “No, I just wanna grow up and be a man like Dada.”

“When I’m infinity I’m never ever gonna have a birthday again.” …Now that’s some deep stuff!

 

May 2019 – Family Highlights

Highlights

  • Calan’s team wins the flag football championship!
  • Mama and Dada visit Evan at preschool

Calan

A sweet ending for Calan’s flag football team in Ventura this month. On Cinco de Mayo, his team played in an elimination playoff game and won. This advanced them to the championship game for 2nd-3rd grade players an hour later. The team did great, consistently scoring points and holding their own on defense. Calan did his usual QB position swap with the other quarterback Ben every other drive and played really well. Emotions were in check, and he executed the passing plays flawlessly. His team had a speedy runner, and when he got the ball it was usually a long TD score. On passing plays, Coach Feeney drew up mostly crossing routes, where receivers would run diagonal routes across the field in opposite directions. This would muddy up the defense allowing receives to run open and ready for the ball. Calan would then throw a short-to-medium pass to one of the crossing receivers. He would hit them perfectly in stride so they could continue to run without missing a step, turn up field and win the ensuing footrace. Playing so well was a bit of a surprise as the last couple weeks saw virtually no practices with coaches and players having conflicts.  It was great to see them win though and carry around their trophies afterwards. Evan and Mama came separately and enjoyed watching the wins. Afterwards, Calan spent a bit of time again with his new buddy Kelly, throwing the ball and chatting. It was hard to see the season end. This was a league we tried at the last minute and for the first time since Calan usually plays spring basketball at the Y, but wasn’t ready to return to it this year. It wasn’t always easy trekking out to Ventura for practices and Sunday games but we made some new friends and captured some good memories together.

The confidence of the winning season helped Calan for sure. Along with watching the basketball playoffs, Calan was feeling upbeat about playing basketball again. After connecting with some parents from past seasons we were able to get him to join a few practices with a Y team at the end of their season. Going from the flag football season to those practices should help him be ready for summer basketball.

Calan continues to practice and study violin with Miss Dena. It’s still not always his favorite task on any given day, but he does it and continues to sound better and better. This month was his spring recital where he returned to his old preschool and played in the big Chapel auditorium. He played a solo with piano accompaniment and several pieces with various ensembles. Miss Dena is late in her pregnancy so this was the last time we will see her for awhile. 
 
Our third grader is already looking forward to fourth grade coming up officially next month. The summer can never come to quick at that age!
 
Notable quotes this month:
 
“Toronto leads by minus seven“, said while watching a playoff basketball game. At that moment, the scoreboard showed Toronto was actually trailing by seven points. 
 
Evan
 
Mama and Dada each got to make some everlasting memories this month as we visited Evan at school for a morning dedicated to the kids spending time and pampering their parents. Mama went one morning for Mother’s Day and Dada for Father’s Day. Mama got to do projects with Evan, eat some snacks and get little hand massages from her sweet little baby. Dada got to do some art projects such as decorate a small picture frame and make some slime from scratch. Lunch included ice cream and pizza (Evan had his pre-made gluten free variety coordinated with the director). It was just too sweet to see Evan away from home and in his school environment, still so young and small, yet so grown up at the same time. 
 
Evan (and Calan) had fun celebrating a classmate’s birthday party this month too. It was held at his grandparent’s house in Santa Rosa Valley. They own some Jack-in-the-Box restaurants and have quite a house with a huge backyard pool. The kids loved swimming and playing games. Evan had his own pizza that we cooked in the kitchen especially for him. One highlight was a giant tortoise that came out and slowly walked around as the kids partied.

Notable quotes this month:

After running into the rocking horse that he moved into the family room, he wailed out in pain. Then, exclaimed “We should not have gotten that horsey for Christmas!”

“When you’re 300 and I’m 200 I’m going to turn into a spider and I will find you and spin a web on your heads.”

Looking at the tiny pieces of a really small flower, says: “These are so tiny, big eyes can’t see them.”

While Calan was dealing with a tummy virus, Evan would periodically check on him with his toy doctor’s kit. On one check he assessed: “Your heart is beating because you ate a lot. Your blood pressure is high because you yelled a lot.”

One day Mama needed to ask Evan something but didn’t know where he was at the moment. Apparently, Evan was engrossed in something serious:

Mama: “Evan?”
Evan: “What?!”, said with a loud, impatient tone.
Mama: “Evan, that’s not a nice way to respond to someone.”
Evan: “What? I’m playing right now. Nobody disturb me while I’m playing.”

 

April 2019 – Family Highlights

Highlights

  • Kids went to gem and mineral show with Dada
  • Evan’s Spring Sing concert
  • Calan sets a new 3×3 speed cube record

Calan

This month continued the Future Pro football season for Calan. The team was doing well with Calan alternating at QB with one other boy. One game was a little tough as the coach was gone, and they had to play on a new field he hadn’t been on before. He wasn’t feeling quite up to playing and missed a lot of the game. He finally went in and felt good enough to throw a couple passes and a few plays on defense. The following week, he recovered well and was back to his usual self running plays and throwing passes. The best part of that day though was igniting a friendship with his teammate Kelly. He knew Kelly of course, but that day after the game he got to spend some time playing catch and then getting some snow cones at the food truck next parked next to the fields. Another instance where you can really see that with the right kind of kid, Calan really thrives in making a friend and sharing time with them. He couldn’t wait to see Kelly again at the next practice.

NBA playoffs started this month, and Calan and Dada took advantage and watched some good, early series. This of course, prompted Calan’s love for basketball. And so after weeks of being so football focused Calan returned to regular basketball playing out on the court. You’d find him out there practicing and enjoying shooting around, especially early in the mornings. He is so motivated by seeing others play. Pretty typical for kids, but it’s strong for Calan.

One incident Calan would love to forget is a freak bike accident on the long bike trail. It was the first one on his mountain bike he got a few months ago. The tire just slipped when it came off the pavement and onto the dirt shoulder on the side of the trail. We were almost home too, so it was especially hard after a nice, long ride. Needless to say he scraped up his knees and elbow pretty badly. He has been remarkably strong through the recovery. 🙂

As he continues to practice with his speed cubes, Calan worked on his 3×3 speed this month. He’d been under a minute a few times previously, but one day managed to get a time of 36 seconds on his timing mat. A fun moment for him!
 
Day-to-day, Calan continues his routines of seeing Mr. Henning and Miss Kim along with his violin lessons each week. Also, playing a few piano pieces daily. Doing “read-alouds” with Mama have been working out great this month. They read “Farmer Boy” (Laura Ingalls) a lot. 
 
Evan
Evan had some springtime events at preschool this month, taking us back four years when Calan did these things. The first was the “Spring Sing” school concert. As always, it was fun to see Evan in his school environment; visiting his classrooms, seeing his classmates and of course Evan showing us his different school projects decorating his classroom. The concert itself hadn’t changed from 3 years ago – just a different set of kids mostly all “yelling” the lyrics to the cute springtime and Easter songs. Evan displayed his style of performance that confirmed our two boys aren’t terribly enthusiastic about getting up and singing and doing choreographed moves to songs. That aside, it was still something to soak up, watching Evan up there all handsome and in the limelight up on stage.
 
One treasured school activity this month was Evan getting to bring home the new, baby chicks from school for the night. After watching the eggs for a while at school and seeing them hatch, each kid gets to take them home overnight for a sleepover. Evan was adorable watching them and teaching us about how to care for them (with Mama’s informed support of course). 
 
Evan also got a little more into learning some basic basketball skills recently. In particular he liked doing the perfect bounce pass, carrying out the strict form he learned for how to do it. Calan helped him, and Evan loved showing Mama how to do it at one point. He also applied this focus to dribbling correctly and playing mini-games with Calan on the sport court.
 
Notable quotes this month:
 
“I’m running out of air.” When having a slight reaction to wheat dose and nose clogging up making it hard to breathe. 🙁

“Your sunglasses case came with sunglasses?” Referring to Dada’s new sunglasses that came with a hard shell storage case.

“Mama, I love you all the numbers except the really small ones. So, I don’t love you one, two or three.”